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Attachment

Attachment is a strong, lasting emotional bond between an infant and a caregiver, shown by staying close, distress on separation and joy on reunion. It grows through caregiver-infant interaction (reciprocity and interactional synchrony) and develops in stages (Schaffer). Animal studies (Lorenz's imprinting, Harlow's cloth mother) suggest bonding is about comfort, not food. Learning theory says we attach to whoever feeds us; Bowlby's monotropic theory says the drive is inborn, focused on one main carer during a critical period, and forms an internal working model. Ainsworth's Strange Situation finds secure, avoidant and resistant types, whose mix varies across cultures. Deprivation and institutional care can harm later development.

๐ŸŽฌ Step-by-step story

  1. Attachment grows from small daily exchanges. Carer and baby take turns, like a chat (reciprocity), and copy each other's moves in time (interactional synchrony).
  2. Attachment grows in stages: no preference, then any friendly person, then one special person, then many people. Fathers can be key attachment figures too.
  3. Goslings follow the first moving thing they see. Baby monkeys cling to a soft cloth mother, not a wire one with milk. Comfort matters more than food.
  4. Learning theory says babies attach to whoever feeds them. Bowlby says babies are born ready to bond with one main carer, early in life.
  5. The Strange Situation sorts toddlers into secure, avoidant and resistant types. The mix changes from culture to culture.
  6. Your turn: losing care early can harm later life. Choose when a child left a poor orphanage and see typical outcomes.

Tip: drag the 3D scene to turn it. Use two fingers to zoom.

๐Ÿค” Common doubts, cleared

Can a baby really 'talk' before words?

Yes: smiles, coos and looks in turns are a real two-way exchange. Watch the carer and baby take turns.

Is the main attachment always the mother?

No. It is the most sensitive, responsive carer, which can be the father or a grandparent.

Can we use monkey studies to explain human babies?

Carefully: they show comfort matters, but humans are more complex, and the studies raise ethical concerns.

If food is not the key, why do babies like being fed?

Feeding is comforting and close, but attachment forms to the responsive carer even when someone else feeds.

Does insecure attachment mean a child will have bad relationships forever?

No. It raises risk, but later warm relationships can change the internal working model.

Caregiver-infant interaction

Attachment is a close, two-way emotional bond. Signs: the child seeks to be near the carer (proximity seeking), is upset when they leave (separation distress) and uses them as a secure base to explore from.

Evaluation: baby behaviour is hard to interpret (is it intentional?), but filmed observations are reliable because several observers can check them.

Stages of attachment and the role of the father

A classic study of 60 babies from working-class homes followed them monthly for a year and found four stages:

  1. Asocial (0โ€“2 months): similar response to people and objects.
  2. Indiscriminate (2โ€“7 months): prefers people; accepts comfort from anyone; no stranger anxiety.
  3. Specific (about 7 months): stranger anxiety and separation anxiety with one main attachment figure, often (not always) the mother: the one who responds most sensitively, not the one who spends most time.
  4. Multiple (by about 10โ€“18 months): bonds with several people.

Role of the father: fathers can be primary attachment figures when they are the main sensitive carer. Some research suggests fathers often take a more play-based, challenging role. Children without a father figure do not appear to develop differently on average.

Animal studies and explanations of attachment

Animal studies

Limitation: animals are not humans, and Harlow's work caused severe harm, raising ethical issues.

Learning theory (cupboard love)

Classical conditioning: food gives pleasure; the carer is paired with food and becomes a source of pleasure too. Operant conditioning: crying is reinforced when the carer comes; the carer is reinforced when crying stops. Problem: Harlow and Schaffer showed food is not the key.

Bowlby's monotropic theory

Types of attachment and cultural variation

The Strange Situation is a controlled observation of 12โ€“18-month-olds in eight short episodes: carer and child, a stranger enters, carer leaves, carer returns, and so on. Observers record exploration, stranger anxiety, separation anxiety and reunion behaviour.

TypeBehaviourApprox. share
Secure (B)Explores, moderate distress on separation, quickly comforted on return60โ€“75%
Insecure-avoidant (A)Explores freely, little distress, avoids carer on return20โ€“25%
Insecure-resistant (C)Explores little, very distressed, resists comfort on return3โ€“15%

A fourth type, disorganised, was added later.

Cultural variation: a large review of studies in many countries found secure was most common everywhere, but avoidant was higher in some Western European samples and resistant was higher in some East Asian and Israeli kibbutz samples. Variation within countries was much bigger than between them. Critics say the test may be culture-bound (an imposed etic).

Deprivation, institutional care and later effects

Try it: observe a bond

With permission, watch a parent and baby for five minutes (a park or family visit). Tally: turn-taking (reciprocity), mirroring (synchrony), baby looking back to the parent while exploring (secure base). Compare your tallies with a friend's: do you agree?

Key formulas and definitions

Worked examples

1. An 18-month-old explores the playroom, cries a little when mum leaves, and hugs her and calms quickly when she returns. Which type?

Secure attachment: uses the carer as a safe base, moderate separation distress, easily comforted on reunion.

2. Why does Harlow's study challenge learning theory?

Learning theory predicts monkeys would attach to the source of food (wire mother). They preferred the cloth mother, showing comfort, not food, drives attachment.

3. In a study of 60 babies, 39% had the mother as main attachment and 3% the father as sole first attachment. How many babies is 3%?

3% of 60 = 0.03 ร— 60 = 1.8, about 2 babies.

4. Explain how the internal working model might affect a teenager's friendships.

If early care was warm and reliable, the child expects others to be trustworthy and forms close, stable friendships. If care was unreliable, the child may expect rejection and be clingy or distant.

Common mistakes

Practice quiz

1. Turn-taking between carer and baby is called:
2. Harlow's monkeys preferred the:
3. Bowlby's idea of one main attachment is called:
4. Which type avoids the carer on reunion?
5. Over-friendliness with strangers after institutional care is:

Practice: answer these yourself

Type or choose your answer, then press Check. Use a hint if you are stuck; the full solution appears after you answer.

Frequently asked questions

What is attachment in psychology?

A strong, lasting emotional bond between an infant and caregiver, shown by seeking closeness, distress on separation and comfort on reunion.

What are Ainsworth's three attachment types?

Secure, insecure-avoidant and insecure-resistant, found using the Strange Situation.

What is Bowlby's monotropic theory?

The idea that attachment is innate, focused on one main carer during a critical period, and creates an internal working model for later relationships.

Where this is taught

England (GCSE, A level)Year 124.1.3 Attachment

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